WHAT IS LOVE?

What the heck is love??? I ask myself. All the time. How can we love if we don’t know what, who, when, and where?? Where is love? Who can find her? People say they love you and they hurt you. Love isn’t supposed to hurt. Love is not pain. But everyday, souls are hurting, people are crying... for the name of love. No! For the sake of love....love me please. We all want this thing called love,  and sometimes we need it. But the real questions is....do we know love?  If love knocked on your door, will you know love? How do we know...Real love verus Fake love. ..?

Fake love.... fake love gives you false hope, hope that things will get better, that the pain is just a test of time. That the betrayal is a deep bond.  Fake love covers flaws in potential. When we are in fake love we believe that one day this love will develop into perfect love, so we wait. We wait on potential, we wait in distrust, we wait in silence, we wait in the feeling of being unloved. Fake love does not endure but fears the unknown. Fake love is the fear that Real love actually exist.  Fake love disguises truth with temporary passions. Today its good, tomorrow its bad. Fake love has no boundaries, no morals, no trust, no communication, no devotion. Fake love is an act....a scene in a movie that gets you on the edge of your chair....and right before the climax, it twist and turns, making you believe that the end will play out just like you imagined....but then it disappoints. There is no aspiration in fake love. Fake love is selfish, unruly, greedy, and filled with excuses, drenched in lies. Fake love is the illusion that you are in love. But in all actuality you do not know love. Fake conceals reality, Fake love is confusion. Fake love is muted emotion. Fake love impedes. Fake love blocks progression, stunts growth. Fake love is a lesson. Fake love is a pseudo-experience of ecstasy. Fake love breaks you down, fake love destroys, fake love feeds on brokenness. Fake love sucks the energy out of you. Fake love borrows and never returns. Fake love is unreciprocated love. Fake love exposes your soul and leaves you out in the cold. Fake love fights. Fake love disagrees. Fake love is stubborn. Fake love is rude. Fake love is unkind. Fake love is unwilling. Fake love struggles to flourish. Fake love leaves you empty....

Real love.... real love is knowing...it’s a knowing that you know that the love is real. Not a fantasy, not a hope, not a dream, but reality. Real love is TRUTH. Real love does not hide, real love does not disguise, real love does not mask insecurity with excuses. Real love confronts pain, real love subdues the man to respect the woman. Real love submits the wife to her husband. Real love is not forced, there is no power nor control. Real love is free will. Real love is RESPECT. Real love doesn not selfishly hurt or inflict pain.  Real love is DEVOTION. Real love is the undying  passion devoted to loving. Real love is kind. Real love is sweet. Real love is caring. Real love does not compete. Real love does not compare. Real love is motion. When  we are in real love, your are moved, progression exist, growth takes place. Real love is where purpose meets destiny. Real love is sovereign. Real love does not beg, real love does not steal, real love does not cheat. REAL LOVE IS WILLING. Real love comprises. Real love agrees.Real love does not manipulate.  Real love is TRUST. Real love trusts in the unknown knowingly. Real love is acceptance. Real love searches, Real love seeks, Real love finds. To love for real is to discover. When we have real love we discover all the keys to unlock the future. Real love reveals. Real love speaks. Real love is constant. Real love is consistent. Real love removes barriers. Real love is an experience.  Real love builds, real love gathers, real love RESTORES. Real love EMPOWERS. Real love motivates you. Real love encourages you. Real love is intimiacy, Real love is communication. Real love is  not a battle or war. Real love is not selfish. Real love is balance. Real love is harmony. Real love carries. Real love elevates. Real love pours into you....Real love leaves you FULL.

 Where do we find REAL love????? Real love begins in you. You are REAL LOVE. We are all born with the purpose to LOVE.  The moment you stop accepting fake love, real love will be born in YOU! Real love isn’t found in someone else.You can’t experience love if you have yet to love and accept yourself, truly.....Now I know what you are saying.. I do love myself!!! Right! Lol. But do you really love yourself, flaws and imperfections????? Do you LOVE your SELF?

 “love covers a multitude of sin”

--QueenPoetLove

For Him. For Her. Forever Love. God is love.

Comments

  1. This is very true about REAL love; however what are necessary steps of accepting REAL love when all you've ever known was fake love ? There are many things I desperately want to break free from so that I can experience this thing called real love but the chains are deeply rooted in my in my thoughts.......How do I accept and break free?

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  2. The first step is to know. You have to come to know that real love does exist. To know is to welcome TRUTH! If you know that fake love exist then you must also know that real love exist... now how do you break free from what you used to know? You denounce it. When you denounce something means you no longer accept as it being apart that you know to be true. If you live in something that's not true, then you are living a LIE. To break free, you need to accept truth. Freedom is found in truth. To be free is to find your truth in You. This is how you accept REAL LOVE.

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  3. The first step to truth...is forgiveness... follow my future posts and I will answer more questions. Thank you for your comment.

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